Category Archives: Homeschooling Help

Beyond the Lesson Book: Pets

Pets with Homeschooler

One of the best things about home education is that it opens opportunities for learning that simply can not fit more traditional schedules.  We will take a regular look at some irregular ways to maximize learning opportunities.   Pets are a great place to start.  Certainly I understand that children in public school have pets.  I also understand that time shortages exist.  Our lifestyle lends itself to getting the most out of every experience!

In a homeschool setting, the responsibility for caring for a pet covers a much broader spectrum than simply seeing him a few hours a day.  Housetraining a puppy is an all-day proposition and waiting is not an option for a puppy.  Both necessary tasks (I.e. English) and fun times (I.e. TV shows) alike bow to the needs of a puppy.  Managing interruptions, sacrificing time, putting another (even if it is a four-legged other) are critical character concerns a puppy can teach.  As a child ages, even night-time needs can become their challenge…a slow start in the morning will not upset the entire day!

The freedom to delve deeper into a topic offers great education possibilities.  Over the years, the additions of new pets to our home have initiated many school projects.  Researching breed characteristics (of dogs, horses, rabbits and even chickens) honed research and report skills.  Persuasive writing techniques blossomed with a disagreement on which breed of dog we should purchase.  Lessons on compromise presented themselves as well.  Biology understanding deepened with a look at horse genetics.  Catching a love of learning involves being interested in what you are learning.  Pets are a terrific tool for planting seeds of learning excitement.

Even physical fitness requirements can flow into and out of a pet.  Building dog agility or horse-back riding into the school day accomplishes much more than just meeting state mandates for physical education.  The homeschool lifestyle is a course study in flexibility, individual passion and creativity.  Enjoy the uniqueness of your children and your family as you accomplish the over-arching goal of education. 

-Billie Jo

Persevere with Laughter

persevere in homeschooling

My favorite nuggets of advice when we began the homeschooling journey were:

“You know your weaknesses, so pray.”

AND

“If you’re not having fun, you’re doing it wrong.”

I’ve relied on those treasures of wisdom for thirteen years now!  There were a few years where I modified the second one to “If I’m not having fun, we’re doing something wrong.”  Your home may be different than ours, but our reality has been that sometimes the kids do not look at homeschooling as anything more than drudgery.  I still believe the love of learning that often launches we parents into homeschooling will be ‘caught’ by our children—but there are definitely days they will not have that love!

This week, as we struggled through two very difficult courses high school courses, (read that, ‘difficult for me’) the laughter in the midst of perseverance reminded me how very right this has been!!  I was the Valedictorian of my class; a nerd who felt bad if I did not have an “A” in every subject.  Even then I knew that there was merit to lesser grades and fuller lives, yet I could not quite grasp that concept for myself.  Praise God, my husband, children and our home education journey have taught me better.  Lest you think we do not take grades seriously, we do.  The children demonstrate a competitiveness in grades and a desire to excel that I appreciate.  Yet we have learned together that the deepest lessons of home education transform our character.  My heart rejoices that laughter sweetened our hard work.  I want that to be a lesson the children apply the rest of their lives.  Balancing a chemical equation  and efficiently utilizing a compass for angle re-creation are beneficial; a right attitude in hard times is priceless.

This is a truth we have lived for several years.   Math struggles faced by my son taught him more about perseverance—and his capabilities—than soaring through his Bible lessons.  The college-level Counseling program my daughter is taking (in her sophomore year of high school) instructed her in the value of talking through confusing topics to deepen understanding.  For most of our years, academics have not been a struggle from the ‘parent’ perspective.  I must admit, though, some of our high school courses reveal how much I did not really learn in my own years of education.  While those times are weaknesses, they are not failures.  In fact, those things which I know well are sometimes the most difficult for me to teach. I cannot give a process when it is something I just ‘do.’  Beyond that, I do not expect my children to learn things I am unable to learn.  Therefore, my weaknesses allow me to set the example and persevere with them.  I suspect that the subjects we work harder at will be the content they remember best.  I know the attitude we approach our difficulties with will be part of the legacy of our homeschool.

-Billie Jo

Character: Discipline

Parenting Building Discipline

Discipline.  It really is not a word we like, but it is one of the most important words in our homeschooling vocabulary.  It is a character trait that increases in importance as we age.  My body demands far more attention to stay healthy as I near fifty than it did at twenty!  Most worthy activities require discipline to see them to completion.  An efficient homeschool demands discipline from students and adults.

The most challenging aspects of homeschooling—in my experience—have not come from the academic side of the education equation.  The greatest difficulties stem from ‘people’ issues.  I believe life will show that the greatest blessings of this homeschool effort will show forth in the ways our character (all of us in the family—child and adult) has been transformed in the process.  Let’s take a moment and look at discipline in particular.

In the early years of homeschooling, discipline mostly looks like:  PARENTING!  Truly, home education IS simply parenting on steroids.  Instilling discipline in young children is an absolute necessity for parents who intend to home educate.  Back-talk, disobedience and open rebellion prevents learning.  Proverbs admonishes us as teachers to choose our words wisely—and instruct in the nature of our child—but it also has much to stay about a teachable spirit.  We do much to help our children learn to be teachable when we teach discipline (through obedience).  Cooperation from our young ones is a definite exercise of discipline for them.

On the parenting side, discipline looks like doing what you really don’t want to do—or putting off what you would rather do.  (It is not much different than the child’s issue, is it?)  That great sale at the grocery store may tempt us to slide the dreaded math lesson off another day.  Learning to make school the priority and refusing distractions is our part of discipline.  Helping family and friends understand that school IS a priority is a discipline in itself—and a topic we will tackle on another day.  We teach discipline by example.

Are you seeing the beauty of discipline?  As we practice it, it will become dear to us.  The accomplishments ARE worth it.  Watching our children discipline themselves to press on for a goal is a joy.  Seeing them become Disciples of Christ—willing to endure hardship for His glory—requires a character that embraces discipline.  Every challenge we face in life demands the practice of discipline.  The homeschool experience provides us teachable moments daily for this important characteristic.  Point to the great good that comes with slugging through hard times in Algebra…don’t argue about whether a particular ‘fact’ will ever be needed.  Simply direct your attention (and your child’s) to the deeper truths being practiced—and instilled in the character.  Discipline is only one of many character traits enhanced through home education, but it is a vital one. 

 -Billie Jo

Simple Tip

Mother and Daughter Homeschool

Sometimes the easiest things become the biggest stumbling blocks to a smooth school day.  “Where’s my pencil?”  “I need an eraser.”  “I can’t find any notebook paper.”  As homeschool families we LIVE in our homes far more than most.  The piles of busy-ness can easily become a cluttered mess.  Spending just a bit of time to create a homeschool supplies area will bring smoothness to your days that will bless immensely!  Probably it has been on your to-do list for months.  If so, may this be just the encouragement you need to create your spot today.

No doubt you already have all you need to create a homeschool supply nest.  A desk, book-case and/or filing cabinet dedicated to homeschool necessities easily prevent the time waste of searching.   The most important resource:  a simple pencil box and a sharpener in a readily accessible place.  This will prevent the greatest number of school day delays.  The contents of the ‘nest’ vary with the ages, courses and interests of your students.  Honestly, for me, it usually requires three or four consecutive days of “Where is….” before I catch on to the need to update the supply area, but the relief is immediate.

 Some timeless necessities include: 

  • An age-appropriate dictionary and encyclopedia; perhaps a thesaurus.  (I know Wikipedia and spell-check are popular but…  Also, sometimes the computer simply offers more distraction than assistance. )
  • That wonderful pencil box mentioned earlier (with a sharpener)
  • Basic art/project supplies such as:  scissors, markers, tape, glue and colored pencils
  • Math supplies:  protractor, compass and scientific calculator
  • Whiteboard and supplies for the teacher to draw out some of the concepts

Don’t let those ‘little foxes’ throw a wrench into your school days.  Avert the difficulty before it pops up.

Memorization & Learning Fun

Mom with two children learning

Flash card drills.  Math fact tables.   Do they matter?  With so much to learn is it really necessary to drill the same things over and over again?  Well, opinions may vary but I would give a whole-hearted, YES!  Simply put, fact mastery makes all the higher level learning smoother.  While math is the obvious focal point for memorization, it is useful in every discipline:  bible verses, grammar rules, science tables and more.

Education from Kindergarten through graduation involves incremental learning.  In many ways, each year is a review of the previous year with exciting expansions in content and application.  Understanding the basic system encourages us to instill deep learning in our students.  Rote memorization is a foundational tool that allows us to build a terrific academic structure.  Now that offers motivation for we teachers, but how do we keep our students attentive and interested?

Learning through play is definitely one possibility.  Wonderful books on incorporating games into learning sit in the library waiting to share their secrets.  Hopscotch math was a favorite when our children were young.  Rolling over-sized diced to get the numbers and hopping out the math fact made for laughter and learning.  Old-fashioned board games, hand-held math fact timers and computer programs with spaceships offer diverse ways to prevent boredom in learning.  Instilling a love for learning begins with fun in learning.  Get all the senses involved as often as possible and get their bodies moving!

Music is a definite aid.  Put facts to music or rhyme.  Teach silly acrostics to help memorize disconnected pieces of information.  ROY G BIV and “My Very Educated Mom Just Taught Us about Neptune” are nonsense words that keep great information accessible. Clapping or other rhythmic motion may keep the attention of a very kinesthetic learner.  Very young children have learned the entire genealogy of Christ by putting it to song.  The power of music and movement is a great asset in learning. Use the things that speak to your student’s heart and help them take nuggets of knowledge deep into their minds.

Finally, grab every teaching opportunity!  Life is learning.  Opportunities to practice math facts at the grocery store begin with counting tomatoes in the package and progress to unit pricing and family budgets.  Calculating the miles per gallon of gas and the cost for every trip to Wal-Mart may just change your own spending habits—while your student practices multiplication and division.  Reading grocery labels, learning new words…even foreign words is possible on nearly every trip.  Listen to the interests of your students and look for lessons in those arenas. 

As home school parents, we have the potential to design curriculum that fits the hearts of our students.  It is a high and holy privilege.  Use the opportunities life presents, use the personality and preferences in your home…and enjoy the learning adventure!